"Because there's usually not enough room in my head for worrying," Kathy said. "I'm thinking--if I'm thinking at all--about how good something feels or if I wanna try something else or about how sexy you or Anders are at that moment."

There was more and she carefully turned the explanation over in her mind a few times before elaborating. "There's also a lot less room for me to screw up there. We're on the same page there. No room for confusion or misunderstandings or mismatched expectations. And even if there were, well, it's kinda hard to say something stupid when my mouth is occupied."

So much less to think about and also less brain to think it with. Perfect.